Tuesday, May 31, 2022

What you ordered versus what you got: Think Like Davis. TLDReport.

 Now, I don't want to burst anyone's bubbles the amount of laughter being generated over the eCommerce space lately cannot be overemphasized. The reason is because people see what the like and go for it only to receive deliveries of something unheard of!I will not even share images to avoid setting the internet ablaze.

Now, this message goes to fathers, brothers and uncles who order male children through their wives and God delivers a female child to them and they get worked up forgetting that they also contribute to gender being produced as the woman alone cannot determine that!This is what I have to say: Calm, God knows what He is doing!

Now, the fact that you ordered a plate of wealth from the universe and you got served poverty does not mean you should leave this restaurant called earth hastily!Just check yourself to know what ingredients to add in order to make the meal sweeter!

It does not matter how old you are so long as you have not being idle, you will still succeed but if you are just realizing that time matters, then buckle up and wait. Once it is your turn, go in and succeed.

I leave you to your keyboard as I prepare myself to receive your response at this end!Order what you can contain but do not be afraid to ask for more or better if the one you get isn't.

No matter what happens, refrain from verbal altercations that destroy long term relationships that have been faring well. Smoothly resolve issues and keep violence aside.

I am optimistic.

What you think versus what you write: Think Like Davis. TLDReport.

 


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Sometimes, we are faced with what we never expected but there is no way we can say that we don't have what it takes to conquer it because, already, we have been told that anything can happening.

Moving forward does not mean that nothing had happen in the past but remaining in the past is a better way of cheating the future out of its own resources but it also means that we are not comfortable with the fact that we must face the present uprising.

Let's look within and set those thoughts right because what we say definitely come from them and you know what?What we say definitely shape our futures!Moving on from that, we would learn why it is sustainable to praise God as He knows the end from the beginning.

THINK LIKE DAVIS if you need to forget the past but do not fail to pick the lessons inherent in it nor fail to straight the record straight!To be on a safer side, do not err but if you do, repent!

There is no voice that is louder than the voice of wisdom and it cries for justice because long after we are gone and our carcasses decay, it our legacies that remain. Whether good or bad, it is what we do now that matter!

Being easily approachable is not the matter here but knowing how to regulate the manner of people that come close to you on daily basis. Come on, there are people who when given the privilege to be with you for just 3 hours would spend a whole lot of the time making frivolous remarks and it can be exhausting at times!

If you don't control your space, another person will pollute it and when that happens, depressive thoughts creep in. Do not hope to repent while on your hospital bed, repent now!

Tomorrow is too late but it will come. It is better than the past because the past has no way of coming back but you see today?Don't joke with it because that's all you have got.

Work hard if you heard that is the way to succeed but when you get the right information, then learn learn to work smartly.

Govanext.


NZEAKOR DAVIS MOTIVATION

 ’Boy, we pumped!‘’ - Peace Gabriella.

At times, you can't just help but flare up because what is happening in the world right now can drive someone crazy!The point that I am trying to drive home is that there is time for everything. When you are done flaring up, rejoice because that is how the world works but before then, there are things that come in-between.

The fact that there are scammers in the world does not mean that you should not invest again, the fact that there are fake teachers out there does not mean that you should not learn again and the fact that you are depressed does not mean that you should commit suicide!There is still a space for success.

There are times you need to just get excited and forget the worries of this world and trust God because He knows the Way!Trusting God does not mean that money is going to fall down from heaven because you might still need to hustle.

If you are looking a job, then click here. In the absence of that, you can flashelsewhere. It is a win-win situation because in both cases, you still get to understand yourself better.

When the pen dances furiously upon the pages of life;I will remember you and I guess that it has started dancing. So, get ready to shine. Ladies and gentlemen, there are times you have to call it a quit.

NZEAKOR DAVIS MOTOVATION is not saying that you should remain in a particular way if it does not profit you anything!Give up if it requires blood or fetish doings, give up if it requires bribe and give up if it takes all your time but gives you nothing in return.

You can travel abroad but first, calculate yourself and elope with your certificates because the future is education. Get funds for your education, plan yourself and be friendly with anyone who shows zeal for success in a right way. That is, without the tendency of soiling one's hands so that you can soar higher.

There is no need defrauding people in order to enrich yourself. Always climb up but first, remember that it is good to have a solid foundation.

ONE WAY DRIVER !

 My ambition in life has always been to become a one way driver and give lastma officials headache and when my boss bought a car that he was not using, it was a dream come true for me and I started using it to supply goods to our clients but the truth of the matter is that I was troublesome!Thanks to the gene for tallness, I no dey hear word!

Nwodo tried and failed, Ocha tried and failed. So, they ganged up!It was a heated argument but I was given the privilege to air my views!I was not much a fan of football clubs but I supported Man City just for the conversation to keep flowing that afternoon at the shop as there were no customers to attend to as we had just finished playing the ludo game and some shop owners in our line were sleeping while others yawning!So, I picked up my car keys and left. That same afternoon, I was picked up by traffic regulators and I sent to their office to better explain myself but I was not perturbed one bit as they claimed that I had broken traffic laws!

Suffice it to say that I was a trouble maker but when I got there, I found out that the boss who used to be my friend and a former classroom had being transferred to another location and I was made to face karma!So, I resorted to pleading with the new man in charge as all my pleas fell on deaf ears and I realized the full meaning of OYO. Last last, I was billed heavily and I cried coupled with the fact that there was no sales made at the shop!

That day, I made myself a promise never to rely on the arm of flesh!I am imiano.

LESSONS:

Be a law-abiding citizen.

Always check on your friends to know when they have been transferred to another place and,

Supply goods to diligent customers!

Vacancy! Vacancy!!Vacancy!!!



We need delegates from the 36 states of Nigeria. We will train you and send you off!

Here is how it works.

PWAN is an acronym for Property World Africa Network and it runs real estate merchandise on a very large scale with the aid of its sister companies called affiliates which have been spoken about on imiano's blog.

What happens is that when you buy lands, the person that invited you gets a percentage as a token of appreciation. So, if you are the one that invited people, when they buy, you also get credited. That is how DownloadNaira works!

Right now here, we are making the windows open for those who would like to invest in real estate and get their monies back with profits to do so. As a matter of fact, you get 40% increment on an investment plan of 12 months, 17.5% return on investment for 6 months and 7% profit for investing in pwan homes ltd for just 3 months!You can start with any amount including N500,000, N150,000 or even n26M. All are intact as you go with a post-dated cheque.

So, who is this post for?It is for those people out there who would want to invest their money well by either buying lands, selling lands or doing both. If you want to sell land, we will train you and send you off. That is after registration, if you want to buy land, you are welcome (just add imiano as your REFERER at the office with NZEAKOR DAVIS, 09015186251 and MYIMIANO@GMAIL,COM as there is a space for that while filling your property subscription form)and if you wan to do both, then just invest in buy to sell which I have explained above!

What we basically do is that you go out, talk to people and get them to subscribe for property ownership and when they do, you an a commission.

RANDOM FACTS:

Our delegates are called Pwan Business Owners(PBOs).

Our websites are open and,

You can start investing now.

THE BITTER IN-LAW

 THE BITTER IN-LAW

Problem all started when he finished talking rubbish and then he asked me, ‘’Am I understood?‘’ I said no and everywhere stood still. This is a man that I have laboured for for a large percentage of my life. If I had remained in the village as a virgin, it would have been easy for me!Now, in the city, I have just few people and Formular is one of them.

I called Formular that morning and he and Iyke came to my rescue. It is a long read, though.

LONG POST ALERT

This life is not easy but I did not learn it on time. It was when I started drowning that it dawn on me that if you allow people to take you for granted, then they would as well, turn you onto a workaholic person!Papa Chioma said he was going to settle me for the seven years apprenticeship that I have done for him by letting me to marry Chioma, his precious daughter but I was wondering where the money I would use and fend for the family would come from because I like the idea as Chioma is a pretty lady!

When my boss called me that morning, I was on my bed reading a magazine while facing the ceiling at the boys quarters. So, I ran to go and meet him but unknown to me, calamity awaits me as he had purposed to change me from a shop keeper to an in-law or a potential one!

HOW I TOASTED CHIOMA

Chioma and I have known each other for a long tome because she stayed in the village for the duration of her primary school education before joining her parents in the city and later, the father discussed with my uncles to let me come stay with him in the city and assist him in his business where we sold surveillance system, solar powered lights and even did installations and training for people, government officials and organizations!I was the lead tutor because I have a nice voice. In fact, my voice can drive away evil spirits. So, when I came to the city, my boss ordered one of the Assistant Managers to train me before he was transferred to another state.

My boss was not always around as he traveled on a regular basis. One day, Chioma came to the shop to fetch a letter that was delivered to her father through a courier service provider and I later got to know that the letter was from a real estate company called property world africa network and they were informing my boss of the emergence of a new estate in the heart of the city and it was intriguing as my boss never owed any bank as he was a heavy investor!

When Chioma came to pick up the letter (which you can read here), she smiled at me and I smiled back. Since then, my body system changed and the chemistry was not smiling either. So, I told her my botanical name which was imiano and we bonded. Since then, she had always sneaked out to come and see me by 9pm each day by pretending that she was bringing me dinner. At times, I joined them at the dinning table at the main building though but I didn't know that my oga was watching every move I made through a camera that he mounted secretly.

IMIANO TOLD ME

At times, I hold meeting with myself to know what is happening because anything can happen. So, I summoned both my body and spirit for a meeting one morning and it worked. It was a friend of mine that thought me this strategy and his name is Onyedika. Even Victor was not helping matters because he was a boy in my street and I have warned Pato not to involved me in Partisan politics again!

Time went on and I promised to treat Chioma well because she's a good girl. Imagine a house where there was no house maid or nanny whatsoever and she took care of her younger ones and did the house chores with them while her mother was a teacher. Every month, they visited the motherless babies' homes, made donations to charity organizations and helped the men in the street and I thank God, I was not left behind. In fact, at times, my boss organizes a free medical outreach for the elderly ones!



To make matters worse, I was nowhere to be found as all the youths in the village had gathered to prepare for war with the Okaris people because I had gone to the city in search of greener pastures but I was with them in spirit because even though, I didn't like the violence involved, I am of the opinion that one should protect one's territory.

Justice 4 imiano.

Problem started when I was called by Ezeguy to come and join in the fight because it had gotten to my father's compound. So, I left everything I was doing in the city and traveled to the village without telling my boss!

To fight had we come. So, every protocol had to be observed. Everything went fine and after four years, I went back to continue from where I had stopped but my boss told me that I had being replaced!So, I called Formular to come and help me plead with him and he came along with Ikechukwu!To make matters worse, he said that he was not going to give me any money as a form of settlement except if I agree to marry Chioma and in that case, he would lower the bride price for me and accept me as his son-in-law!‘’Am I understood?‘’ he asked after making a resounding speech.

‘’No sir, we are not together on this. In fact, I sense redliness.‘’ I said and he was shocked and at once, Formular brought out his gold-plated Iphone and started to snap us!When I asked him why, he said that my boss and I were already looking and sounding like long time in-laws. Hence, his decision to officiate the outcome.

THE END!

It was a friendly match, though. So, they left happily and my boss and I reconciled.

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 Eposode II

Chikere was the caretaker before Samuel came in. Chikere was retained by the landlord because he was a family man and he needed some space!The landlord never paid him but he received certain incentives and when Samuel came in, landlord was paying him. Imagine ordinary Estate Manager oo. To make matters worse, he always carried a file, wore tie and rests his hands on the handrail of every neighbour's corridor he visits while making deep inquiries as if he wants to take over the ownership of the compound from the landlord. When I noticed this, I was not happy as he was still a small boy!

When I called the landlord, he asked me if we have found the CSO's weight and I told him that that wasn't the main reason why I called him and told me to come over so that we could talk things over!When I got there, I told him that he needed to pay me so that I could let the cat out of the bag because the matter at hand needs urgent action. He got angry and said that I should kuku keep the cat in its bag since it didn't want to come out of it free of charge and I was shocked. Later, we settled at the sum of N150,000 and I told him everything and went home smiling like a PDP 2022 Presidential Primary Election Delegate and a returning office for that matter!

Episode III

By the time the landlord came in the company of some security operatives to fetch Samuel at once, he was nowhere to be found and they made a thorough search of his room which they gained access to through the ceiling as he had kept the room under lock and key and ran away!To everybody's chagrin, some fetish materials and a laptop were found in Samuel's room and it was even rumoured that he had falsified all the documents relating to the ownership of the building and was already discussing with an Onyigbo client on how they can swap deals.

After the security operatives left, we started laughing because the landlord later came back and made Chikere his official Caretaker of a compound of 52 tenants and vowed to make provisions for his monthly allowance and everybody was happy only for him to inform us that a Peculiar law firm had reconciled him and his family members and that they were now living fine now and in the midst of all this, the Cso rushed into his room, brought out a bottle of pure heaven (non-alcoholic)wine and popped it to the admiration of everybody and we rejoiced!

In that aura of great metamorphosis in the presence of an ever glowing audience of men and women, children and well-wishers, Jack de tiger went to a closed corner of the building and brought out the CSO's long lost weight so that he could start lifting again and we were happy for Chikere because he had been restored.

52 tenants

 52 tenants

OCCUPY TILL I COME.

At a very young age of 16, I thought that I had discovered the real definition of Kasala because I thought that it is a situation whereby every where don red and the youths enter street in order to get a better country but I was wrong because cabal was involved and our landlord was one.

Wherever two or more landlords are gathered, our own landlord is being discussed because he is a mighty man. In fact, ever since we packed in, we have not gotten to know about his family members but he kept telling us to be patient that one day is one day!When we finally got fed up and asked him their whereabouts, he told us that he was deserted and we allowed him to have his space!


Episode 1.

Our landlord went and hired the services of a fresh graduate from estate management department and imposed him on us instead of a lawyer!What baffled us was why a landlord would hire the services of a whole graduate just to intimidate us. In a compound of 52 tenants, he had only one fan and that is the one writing this. Our landlord threatened to impose curfew on us from 6pm to 6am because he said that he didn't understand the kind of strange faces that were patrolling to street recently. To make matters worse, he hired a Chief Security Officer and handed over the gate keys to him and commanded him to be carrying weights up and down in the presence of the whole tenants so as to get muscles. The first week worked for him but the second didn't as his weight got carried away and he was forming big boy!

Every Thursday is a, ‘’Matters Arising,‘’ day and every Tuesday is a, ‘’Tenant Lives Matter!‘’ Advocacy day and we enjoyed them because our landlord usually have passes through fire on one of those days while the tenants equally have there own share during the other. It will go around, everybody will receive woto woto. During the ‘’Tenant Lives Matter‘’ Tuesday, we drill the landlord thoroughly as hos he intends to better the lives of the tenants without fear or favouritism and during the Matters Arising Thursday, we ask Mama Nkechi what she was doing in Oga vitus' corridor while everybody was away!

Monday, May 30, 2022

DOINGS DIFFER: I WILL EXPLAIN.

 


You fit dey buy one plot of land each month and another person will be buying 2 plots per month!So, it depends on your budget. Meanwhile, we have some offers here that you can look into:

1. BUY 10 PLOTS OF LAND AND GET ONE PLOT FREE.


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2. BUY 8 PLOTS OF LAND AND GET 1 PLOT FREE.

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3. BUY 5 PLOTS OF LAND AND GET ONE PLOT FREE.


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4. BUY 4 PLOTS OF LAND AND GET 1 PLOT FREE.


5. BUY 3 PLOTS OF LAND AND GET 1 PLOT FREE.


6. BUY LANDS NEAR YOU.


7. BUY LANDS WITH CERTIFICATE OF OCCUPANCY.


8. BUY LANDS IN QUANTITY AND BECOME A LANDLORD.


9. BUY LANDS IN NIGERIA AND PAY BY INSTALLMENTS SPANNING BETWEEN 3 MONTHS TO 12 MONTHS.


10. BUY LANDS AND SELL LATER THEREBY MAKING INSTANT PROFIT AS YOU GO WITH A POST DATED CHEQUE!

REFERER:

NAME: NZEAKOR DAVIS.

PHONE: 09015186251 AND,

EMAIL: MYIMIANO@GMAIL,COM

JUST WALK INTO ANY PWAN OFFICE AROUND YOU AND PUT ME ON THE PHONE!!!

MEANWHILE, I AM ALSO HERE IN CASE OF FURTHER INQUIRIES. SEE OUR CONTACT US PAGE TO GET MORE INFO ON HOW TO LOCATE PWAN OFFICES.

DIARY OF A PDP DELEGATE, FOUR!

 CHAPTER FOUR

My hotel room was seriously tempered with by the time I got there but I had nothing to say as any mistake could be deadly as my pockets were heavily loaded already and I was in a haste to get to the airport where I could catch the next available flight to fly back to the east and rest my mind following the events of the few hours ago in which I ended up voting in favour of the lesser evil as I meant well for this country.

On getting to Coal City, I called a bosom friend of mine who came and picked me up from the Airport straight to his luxuriously furnished apartment where I freshened up and changed into a local attire to avoid implicating myself as news was everywhere that delegates must have cashed out big time and there was even a rumour that the must have been under the 'dollar rain' with people that matter in the society.

Well, that is a story for another day because what I care about right now is a dose of Nzeakor Davis Motivation which of course, I can easily grab when I log onto my Facebook App and flip over to Chioma's wall.

If I say everything I saw at the convention, then this atmosphere will not contain us. I leave you to elect the next president!

Don't fail to do us proud.

DIARY OF A PDP DELEGATE, 3

 CHAPTER THREE

That was how we found ourselves trooping into the venue for the convention after being briefed at our various hotel rooms sooner than later than we had arrived the city for the much expected national convention and we were in high spirits. Because the person I wanted to vote for had withdrawn from the race few days after I had made my firm resolves to vote him, I was left with no other option than to make an 11th hour adjustments. That was how I saw myself voting for the highest bidder. I had just received a call from my wife reminding me that the time to pay the children's school fees was around the corner and I had to do what I did. Sobs.

Ladies and gentlemen, that was how I found myself scampering for safety with some other delegates on our way back to the hotel rooms after we had left the guests who were being entertained behind. On our way back, we were accosted by certain hoodlums who were showing the grievances over the poor state of the nation by burning pieces of tire on the roads but we couldn't do anything as it was not our duty to enforce peace and order in the country.

DIARY OF A PDP DELEGATE, TWO

 CHAPTER TWO

Ha Ha Ha, if there is anything I can ask the Owner of the universe to do, it would be the ability of fast fowarding one's days on Earth so that the actual day can come!It troubles me that the person that I wanted to vote for is not all that popular and there was no one to discuss it with as I was under an oath not to mention names for no just cause!So, I kept it to myself. My wife being an evangelist wouldn't want to hear any of such things but it appears to me that she is interested in politics of recent because a guy she holds in high regard is also contesting. So, I kept wondering what was in her mind.

I met my wife when I was in school through a friend of mine who sold gala and soft drinks in the university premises one of those days when I went for my normal clearance routine in school, later I saw her at the major junction that leads to the female students' hostel and I developed interest in her. When I got home and told my parents and siblings about her, they concluded that I have introduced one of the most controversal consrvations in the history of our family into our lineage and I noded. After all said and done, they followed me to her parents house where we did the necessary things and everybody celebrated with us!That was how we got to know each other better.

‘’I don't joke with my business!‘’ I could remember telling her one morning.

‘’Well, that is your choice.‘’ She had responded one morning when the issue of whether politics was a dirty game or not and the issue ended there. Apparently, she thought I was the head of logistics department for pwan homes ltd, a company that traded real estate but she got to find out otherwise because I always traveled. I thank God for her understand because till today, I still wonder how she manages to put up with the kids when I am nowhere to be found. I guess the presence of her relatives comforts her and she finds solace i the word of God.

Chikaimo and Kwatse were identical twins. So,whenever I come back and any of them is reported to me, all I do is give the person involved a soft slap on the cheek and also make provisions for the family before zooming off on another trip.

DIARY OF A PDP DELEGATE

 ‘’When the pen dances furiously upon the pages of life;I will remember you! This is one of the motivational quotes that I have been hearing from my wife lately and I wondered what it is all about but I guess she was right!Maybe, destiny has remembered me. When I was nominated to be among those voting during the primary election of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, I knew that there must be something there for me. After all, I have been a loyal member of the party and being a positive-minded person, I always think in that direction!So, when Ezeguy called me to send him my location, I did that ASAP not minding whose ox is gored. I am Alhaji Bello Odinaka and this is my story.


CHAPTER ONE

The drill was much as the presidential aspirant addressed us and every of his words pierced through souls. He was in a huge Hausa regalia while his security details, personal assistants and followers were decked in various outfits including corporate attires and we listened with rapt attention. In order to ascertain his level of sincerity, we asked him so many questions so as to know who to vote for and at the end of the day, we made conclusions and each delegate had his candidate at heart. His speech was so powerful that we had to bury our heads in our handkerchiefs as he spoke to us vehemently reminding us that the ruling party had ruined the lives of the populace and how that we needed to set a rescue mission on motion!As it was customary with us, we clapped our hands together for him after he had delivered the speech and thanks to the events planners, the place was well ventilated and it was shinning as we waited for the next action in line with our scale of preference called to-do list or programme of events. Before, we left that venue, we learnt the act of eating quietly.

HOW WE ROLL

 HOW WE ROLL

Aunt, Mummy, Daddy, Uncle, PWAN is here to stay!You can own properties with ease!

HOW IT WORKS

Pwan Homes LTD is a leading company in Africa that deals in the real estate sector. Do not let anyone scam you, there are fake agents out there!Just invest in Pwan Buy to Sell.

DOWNLOADS

Here, we run a digitalized form of service provision system which resolves around websites but one thing is certain, we also have physical offices that you visit and make inquiries. In lieu of this, you can download, watch or fill property subscription forms, videos or flyers for better understanding.

ESTATES

Pwan Homes Ltd runs a network of estates that span around the country in such places as ABUJA, OBOSI, EZZAMGBO, AKWA-IBOM, EDO STATE, AWKA, CALABAR, UMUAHIA, LAGOS, SANGOTA, IBADAN AND EVEN IMO STATE. To your delight, you can choose one and pay but make sure you are paying into the account number only found on the property flyer and you should add IMIANO as your REFERER:

NZEAKOR DAVIS

MYIMIANO@GMAIL,COM AND

09015186251.

What this means is that you willbe recognized as somebody who got to know about the company through me and actually purchases something.

SUBSCRIBE

When new estates come out, we send notifications to clients (and potential ones)to let them know about it because it is said that life is spent in stage. Once one stage is passed, we move to the next: after payments come allocations!

So, guild your loins.

BUY TO SELL

Welcome to the real estate investment parcel that allows you earn 40% in 12 months, 17.5% in 6 months and 7% in 3 months.

In all these, make use to include Nzeakor Davis, Myimiano@gmail,com and 09015186251 as your REFERER when you invest with Pwan.

You can start investing now!

SECURE PLOT RESERVATIONS

 The pain of losing millions to ponzi scheme operators cannot be compared with anything because it comes unexpectedly and happens almost suddenly to the extent that the victimized individuals contemplate suicide which thing is not good.

It is better to invest your money in real estate and leave it there until it matures than to feed hungry beings out there!That is why I have selected a set of high quality products from pwan group to display on this website and, of course, you know that even if you're abroad, you can still buy lands with pwan homes ltd in Lekki, Abuja, Portharcourt, Anambra or other states!

What happens here is that you visit any of the offices closest to you to make inquiries just to clear your mind!You can ask about BUY TO SELL, BUY AND BUILD or BUY AND WAIT. You can as well request for flyers, videos or subscription forms to better understand what the real estate business is all about. The only thing you need to do is add imiano as your REFERER when you are making purchases at the office so that they can know that you are coming from me and I can also be here to offer any further assistance:

Name: NZEAKOR DAVIS

Phone: 09015186251. And,

Email: MYIMIANO@GMAIL,COM and remember that there are prizes that await you when you buy more lands and you can also make payments based on installments.

The good thing about Pwan is that you can see things for yourself when you go for site visitations as that can easily be booked. To see our estates, you can come to our office during daytime to follow us to the sites for inspections of properties. And you can choose the office closest to you by visiting our contact us page or send someone to see the lands on your behalf.

Payments should be made in favour of Pwan Homes Ltd. Because there are other small business agencies under pwan group, it is good to know that payments are to be made to the correct account details because each company has it's bank account and you can get this from the flyer containing the property you are to buy or ask for it at the office. All you need to do is tell them that Nzeakor Davis referred you and that is all.

When filling your property subscription forms, remember to add it as there is a section for that, once again:

Nzeakor Davis

09015186251 and

Myimiano@Gmail,Com.

In case you are wondering if it is possible, yes it is!You can be a LANDLORD this year and you can also make money based on our LAND BANKING POLICY that is also called buy to sell.

PWAN stands for Property World Africa Network. Let us show you around!

HELP

 HELP

I am perturbed about the current state of things. So, I am bringing myself out to offer my services to those who need it which, by the way, are outlined below:

REAL ESTATE CONSULTANCY

We help you to purchase lands in goodly places such as Anambra, Jigawa, Edo State, Ibeju-Lekki, Obosi, Enugu, Calabar, Abakaliki, Awka, just mention and we will get what you want for you based on your choice!

Whether you need duplexes, bungalows, semi-detached, fully detached, gate house, swimming pool, perimeter fencing, empty lands for commercial, residential or mixed purposes in estates, PWAN HOMES LTD is the answer!Just make sure that you add imiano as your REFERER because I will drop the links below:

Name: Nzeakor Davis

Mail: Myimiano@Gmail,Com and 

Phone: 09015186251.

You need them as these are required while filling your property subscription forms!Just go to any of the following websites:

PwanEdge

PwanAdvantage.NG

PwanMax

Pwanhomes

Pwanhomes

Pwanhaven or 

Pwanpro to know more about us!Just add dot com to any of them and punch ENTER.

Pwan is an acronym for Property World Africa Network and we are saddled with the responsibility of making your homes ownership dream a reality!So, we also conduct surveys and give out free plots of lands to people who purchase much.

REAL ESTATE DEVELOPMENT

Allow us to give you the best design as we know what we can do in this aspect!Whether you are renovating, building from scratch or just need to buy already built homes, let pwan handle it. All you need to do is to make a wise choice by following the instructions above!

BUY TO SELL

Ok, let us help you invest your money where it should be: you get 40% increase for every N500,000 you invest in 12 months, 17.5% for investing with Pwan in 6months and 7% in 3 months. You can give it a try!

This is the best help you can get.

RECAP

Invest in real estate with a reputable company in Nigeria with offices in major cities of Nigeria, pick subscription forms online or at the office, add NZEAKOR DAVIS, MYIMIANO@GMAIL,COM AND 09015186251 as your REFERER while filling them, make payment wisely, wait for your c of o. Repeat the process.

This is easy as you can be doing yourself a huge favour if you invest now!


Sunday, May 29, 2022

I AM IMIANO

 I am imiano

I teach people how to carry other people along!That is why I am imiano. The word imiano stands for, I Make Impacts Amidst Negative Obstacles. So, what it means is that no matter the circumstance, we effect people's lives positively and you should take it personal.

Anything that can fetch you money should not be toyed with. Apart from making heaven, one other agenda you should have is making your stay on Earth worthwhile. To make your marriage devoid of tears, you should listen to your parents especially if they have had a successful marriage and they are giving you good pieces of advice, to make your spending meaningful, you should buy things that you need and forgo things that you don't and also give out money free when you have because the things we do on Earth speak for us especially if you have no useless public figures that you are looking up to because if they are spending money anyhow and you join them, then one day, you may not have money with which to roof your house and if you have good friends, keep them but if you have none, find them. Friends are like pillows you can rely on during the time scarcity and be rest assured that no harm comes to you but if you have the wrong ones, so be it because they are going to betray you!

There is no perfect system on Earth because the family has suffered attacks, the church and the society are still at loggerheads and in most cases, those that are seen as the future leaders have been left behind because of the negligence in our educational system!

FAMILY

In the family, you have to carry people along irrespective of who you are!At times, when you do something, people would be expecting you to give an explanation as to why you did it and if it is not forthcoming, they may believe that you are arrogant. Say how you feel: If you are sorry, say it. It takes two to understand because if you are saying something and the other person is making mockery of it then it means that there is no agreement, if you are going places and you do not carry other people along then just know that you are alone and if you are making things happen and you do not have the time to discuss with God then I can as well wash my hand off your case!

In the family, there are issues that should be ironed out such as school fees, health issues and good living conditions and when they come up, those responsible should carry other family members along by caring, providing and showing respect!


CHURCH

The church is the representative of God on Earth. It could be a body or a building but it is mostly a body!Most people see a church as a gathering of people who came to seek God's face but it is way beyond that!It is also a person who carries the indwelling presence of God. When you become born-again, you receive Jesus Christ into your life as the only begotten Son of God and reject sin henceforth and because you have received him, He becomes a part and parcel of your life whose presence is notable in your life!

In the church, you have to carry people along where necessary. You have to make confessions, profess your faith, give, receive, learn, unlearn and relearn, go for evangelism, understand, appear smart, be strong and be on the look out for sound teachings and all these require a sound mind because you need to speak and be spoken to. Do not relax and say that all is well when nothing is working fine!Run and make friends with Jesus.

SOCIETY

The society comprises of everything you can think of. Whether good or bad, rewd or wholesome and sound or malfunctioning because in it, you see different kinds of people!Whether good or bad, tall or short and rich or poor!The good thing is to know those that you are attracted to and walk accordingly because birds of the same feathers flock together and iron sharpens iron. Let me not remind you that there is a reason for everything!

In the society, you will meet your waterloo, be betrayed or be shattered but do not let any of these things to distract you from achieving your goals because they are there to tryyou as time goes on. So, you have to be patient, understanding and show wisdom where you should so that you can move on!

Carry people along so that you can understand who you are!The people who come after you are mostly people who like what you do: teach them what you know, put them on the right part and encourage them. You can achieve these by doing any or all of these:

SPEAKING

Yes, public speaking is a set of people's career but you can also employ it when you want to achieve something in your daily living. When you open your mouth to speak, be sure of what you are saying, be sure of what you are saying, be sure to give credits to the original author if you are quoting another person and stand your ground! You can speak to make money, to clear your mind or to argue out a point or drive it home. In everything you do, do not be shy.

DRESSING

Let's call it a day to set our dressing aright. The reason is because if you dress like a mad man, you will be addressed like a mad man. Some people will run away if they see you approaching them while wearing dirty clothes!Do not be deceived, being dirty is not part of humility.

WRITING

An average human being writes every day because there is need for that. Either a letter, a proposal or an essay could be written every day. Even the ones we read on Facebook are products of people's thoughts put in words. Do not be deceived, writing helps you to clear your mind and do not write to deceive because everything can be traced. If bad words are traced to you, people see you as a bad person, if snsible things are traced to you, people see you as a potential leader and if good things are traced to you, people see you as a fountain of knowledge!No matter what happens, write with a good and clear hand writing (that is, if you are not typing,)and always be clear on what you are putting down as words because they will walk down the memory lane!

In all, be humble.

AGENDA, FREE AND FUNNY ANAMBRA:

 Hello Everybody!

I am imiano!We are instituting a toxic-free zone where people can share their ordeals and get help irrespective of family backgrounds, educational qualifications, marital and financial status and it is headquartered at Flashelsewhere.com!What it means is that we have instituted a NO FLASH ZONE. In other words, if you want to chat us up, chat us up and if you want to text us, then do so but when it comes to giving us a flash;do that elsewhere.

Funny enough, I have something coming up and it is called BUY TO SELL. It is a package that helps you to invest your money well with a reputable real Estate Company in Nigeria with offices in most developed cities such as Abuja, Lagos, Edo State, PortHarcourt, Abakaliki, Enugu State and most importantly, Anambra. For the love of Imiano, welcome!

DURATION

The Buy to Sell off is time-based in the sense that what you get depends on how long you invested. If you invest for a period of 6 months, you get 17.5% increament, if you invest for 3 months, you get 7% increament and if you invest for 12 months, then you get 40% increament. So, it goes without saying that the percentage of the profit you make is directly proportional to how long you wait. So, the longer wait, the higher your profit goes but you can give it a try by subscribing to any period of time that you want: All I ask is that you make me your REFERER when buying from Pwan Homes Ltd as there is a space for that in the property subscription form you are to fill:

Nzeakor Davis, 09015186251 and Myimiano@Gmail dot Com.


DATA

For this period of time, there are lands for sell but what makes them different is that you don't buy to own, you buy to sell. That is why it is called land banking because you invest your money and after sometime, you get it back with interest. The amount you can invest, to start with, could be the sum of N500,000, above or below!You can invest as much as N26M and you can as well, invest even N150,000 or N75,000.

Yes, there are also promos where you can get free plots of lands when you buy more, home appliances of your choice and even get flexible payment plans whereby you can make payments via installments. And it can span through 3 months to 12 months after you must have done the initial deposits as required!

You can get more information when you download the property flyer, subscription form put a call across to any of the phone numbers listed on any of the following websites:

1. pwanpremium.com

2. pwanprime.com

3. Pwanhomes.com

4. Pwansignatures.com and

5. PwanMax.com

You can also buy lands in order to keep, build on or serve as your property portfolio. Always know that prices of goods appreciate forward!So, act now.

TWO WEEKS AFTER

 ‘’Whoever that knows what can stop this marriage from holding should stand up and say it now or keep silent forever!‘’ Said the Priest before joining my wife-to-be and I together as a pin dropped silence was duly observed.

Two weeks after, Ezeguy came into my house to tell me rubbish about my wife and I was not happy with him because he was a village parrot that goes about crying about everything under the sun!When properties are released by Pwan Homes ltd, he announces it, when two people fight, he announces it and when there are atrocities in the land, he makes an announcement. I didn't know how to tell him that his presence is not needed in my marriage but he was my friend. He told me so many things about my wife that I began to wonder if this was the same Chinecherem that I had met in the streets and had proceeded to marry after a brief public relationship!He even told me that her father was a king and that she came to Nimo to hide herself from bad men who claim to be suitors until she found me!

I am imiano and I admit that at times, it is difficult admitting to realities. Ezeguy was so sure of himself that I ended up going out with him only for him to introduce me to another woman and asked me to buy palm wine for him from the woman before he could tell me the main gist. It was only when we had sat down to sip from our respective cups of fresh palm wine that evening that he opened up to me that he was only saying all those things to pacify me over his absence at the marriage ceremony and I breathed in twice!

The kind of calmness that returned to my mind after he made that revelation could only be described as being heavenly.

LIBRARY

 Build a library, you cannot succeed without one. Your laptop can be a library if you have the right books in it. Ultimately, a library has to do with a house that contains books in a certain order but on a personal scale, you can have a book shelf in your room, just mind the arrangement. Undoubtedly, your library is a go-to place for books on things that might be bothering you! After all, when people are told to conduct a research about a particular concept, they run to the public libraries or the private ones for that matter where they can pay and receive helps or even consult their own! The only lesson we can learn from a library apart from the volume of books that are contained there is the manner of arrangement. Come on, I go into a library, I really do not need to while away my time because I already know where to get exactly what I want. It is lack of clarity if you go to the literature section of a library to look for a book on fluid mechanism. Though, chances happen, keep your integrity tenaciously.

Even when some of the disciples of Jesus Christ went to the tomb in search of Him after that He had risen from the dead, they were told that they were doing the wrong thing by looking for a living Book among the dead. Do not look for goodness where it does not exist. 

When things are no longer the way you expected them, find out why and if the hitches are coming from you then find some ways to fix them. it is even better to be alive and learn lessons than to take your own life abruptly because the lessons you learnt over a long period of time can be transmitted through a message to the ever growing youths to help them overcome what you couldn’t or help them better understand how you did it in your own time! Though, everybody’s story might not be the same, you still have something to offer! That is why experience counts. 


Elderly people are respected for their wisdom because people believe that they have through a lot. In your time of youthfulness, propagate good ideas and apply and apply same and when you’re growing old, transmit same to your children or let them improve with the available information and technology. The internet is there for them, let them use it but guide them!


ALTAR

 An altar is a place of contact with some mightier spirit beings. I have not seen a person erecting an altar in the school premises though there can be a platform for speaking in most auditoriums! Most people erect altars for God in the public places of worship and in their own abodes while some can also erect altars for foul spirits. It all depends on purpose! Some people erect altars to afflict others while some do so to pacify their souls. No matter what happens, do not bow to images.


You know, some people would say that they don’t worship idols that they only bow to images of some specific people that they hold in great honour but those images actually have substances they are made of. Some of them are made with clay, some of them are made with cement and some of them are made with ceramics. It is only in design that they differ. If not, all of them made with materials that cannot breathe! Your car key can be an idol you worship even though you don’t know how. It is because anything you hold so dearly to yourself more than God becomes an idol to you whether that thing breathes or not. Pride can be the idol you worship if it is in your heart. 


To better express myself, let me just say that a plot of land can even be your god that you worship if you have made up your mind to kill somebody just to get it! It is that bad. Most ills that come into our societies emanate from people and we still claim that we don’t know what is wrong with the society! A polluted mind is more likely to encourage a toxic environment and to keep your sanity, stay from them. 


Erect an altar in your heart by following God’s instructions consistently and you can get these instructions directly from the Bible. As much as it is possible, associate with good people!


ANGER

 ANGER

I don’t know a word that better describes a set-up than anger. Anger is a trap! Run from it. People can get angry and say what they shouldn’t and later they turn around to start regretting it. Those people who get angry and flare up do so because they lack self-control. Of course, who doesn’t? But when it becomes more frequent, it should be managed. You cannot stay under the same roof with an angry person and feel happy because you don’t know what he or she would do next! In a moment of rage, you can see your laptop flew past your head and out it goes through the window! Pacify a soul. Do all you can to remain peaceful but when it is not working, call it a quit. 


Be a serial peace maker but do not get entangled in it. There are people who have sworn not to have peace or let others get it, beware and act accordingly. When they see you happy, they come to question your source of happiness and when they fail to make you angry, they would drop a word that makes you confused so long as you allow it to dominate your thinking faculty. Some words are not meant for you, when people push their anger on you, do not feel infuriated but handle the situation calmly especially as the law permits.

The best way to stay away from trouble is to avoid giving them. you cannot give what you don’t have! If you are fond of giving problems, one day, those problems will return to you and when they do, you would look for who to blame for your woes and when you find no one to heap them on, you can even find solace in thinking that they came from the pit of hell. Some people blame some non-existent spirits for their woes while the causes of their problems are staring them right in the faces! Stop being assumptive and work hard on making every minute that you spend on earth count. 


People remember you for who you are because of the memories they have formed about the happy times, the sad times and the weird times that you spent around them. if what they have been hearing about you is true, they will confirm that when they come in contact with you and if what they have been hearing about you is false then they would have a rethink when they have a life experience with you! First impression matters but try to have a long lasting impression of goodness after the first one!    











SCHOOL

 SCHOOL

Some people think that they can build their identities through education. It is good but that is not always the case! The course you studied can be your identity or part of it but that it not all that there is to identity building. Even the id card that you’re wearing on your neck does not say everything about you. So, so long as you are able to say who you are at a particular period of time then you are identified. Identities change, careers change and people change! Don’t get me wrong, it is good to identify yourself with the necessary authorities but identity building should go beyond those papers!

 

AGE

Age is not on anybody’s side because it is always going up and I don’t even see any reason why we should be bothered about that because it is not even within the reach of our controls. Allow time to pass but do not allow your beauty to fade. Cease from bothering about what doesn’t bother about you! Whether you are alive or not, time will still be moving! Just concentrate on living well. Age is not even a reason to get married, age is not even a reason to give up and age is not even a reason to go to hell fire! If you think that you have grown too old that nobody should correct you again then you must begin now to grow young, if you think that age is a reason to give up on your goals and if you think that age enough reason to get married then you can as well get out of it due to insufficient character!

Be wise! Build your identity to cover all things. Do not be specific enough to always think that about marriage only! Think about God, think about life after death, think about opportunities, think about helps, think about justice, think about children and get yourself the necessarily texts to keep you better informed. What you take into your life could form part of who you are! After all, all we know, people told us. Just choose the ones to act upon.

Age is an acronym for avoid giving excuses and there is a website for that domiciled at avoidgivingexcuses.com. when you combine the first letters of those words, what you get is AGE. Avoid giving excuses because they while away time. People who complain about time not being on their sides do so because they do not witness the fruits of their labours in their lives. Even if given 1,000,000 years to live on Earth, without the intended positive results, that life is still empty or abysmal. So, concentrate on character not on time because time passes but character breeds wealth that stay rather than hate that destroys and one can be patient even though places change! Do not run helter-skelter when you should be having peace in your house. Just make sure you are not contributing to troubles.








RELATIONSHIPS

 RELATIONSHIPS

I don’t even know how to start defining this one because so many people have bastardized it over the years since they are into illicit ones. Yes, some relationships can be illicit when they are filled with lies and criminal tendencies and that is where marriage scams come from. Just look at the following scenarios: 

1. A man approaches a woman with the promise of marrying her. They go into a relationship that is endless and after moves ahead to marry another person! What a waste of time.

2. A person borrows money from someone he or she is dating and when it is time to pay, the person defaults and claims that it was a gift.

3. Finally, someone promises to marry a lady, takes away her virginity and then comes up with excuses!

These shouldn’t be because other people’s sanctity should be respected because we don’t know who is next. The person you are trying to protect can fall a victim to another! Don’t just serve as a predator to harm the prey! 

In providing solutions to the problems of the world, one just has to search within. If you cannot solve a person’s problem, do not let that person hold false hope about you! Be clear about what you want in a relationship and if it wasn’t structured to lead into marriage from the onset then should be more likely dissolved amicably. It is more worthy to have a cause to rejoice than to be a casualty!

IDENTITY

Identity is who you are. It is not who people think you should be. Except if what they are saying about you is better than who you think of yourself then you should adjust. Building an identity does not entail paying deaf ears to everybody! There are times that you need to take corrections, make restitutions and try to set the record straight. Just as in company branding, identity building takes time that is why it pains when somebody is slandered for no just cause. Your logo should be a wholesome speech. What people hear from you is what they are more likely to judge you by because they believe that those things are coming directly from your heart and that is how you are. If you have a perverted mindset, people will perceive it from the way you talk. I once opined that mouth odour is bad but mind odour is worse! Work on keeping your mind clean because that is how to have a healthy body. When your head is filled with pornographic materials, extreme violence or negative thoughts about people and things then you are more likely to exhibit that in the future!

People develop pride when they feel that no one is above them. it is good to have that feeling of being above the world but it is also good to know that you can learn from people when you humble yourself. Pride comes to pull down, humility comes to balance the equation. It is not realistically proven that every humble person will be rich but it helps you to maintain your lane!


When you begin to think that everybody should be, is or is going to be below you in everything, remember that you have not yet known it all and you can ask for help where you feel incompetent but you must keep your mind open to wholesome thoughts and good ideas that can blossom into big businesses. 

To handle certain offices, you need to be trained. If you are not teachable, you can’t be trained, if you are not able to take corrections, you can’t improve and if you are not able to recognize where you are wrong, you can’t be able to ask for forgiveness and when people keep reminding you that you could be wrong in some cases, it beats your imagination because you think that you are perfect. At times, attack your ego and set things right. If you are too big to know the truth, then you are more likely to be comfortable living in falsehoods. At times, expect the truth from undeserving channels but do not be deceived.

Not every person you meet on the road is an honest person, rule out imagination and accept reality, rule out greed and accept to work diligently and rule out darkness and accept light. Let us reflect on our lives and know where we are getting things wrong and seek new information that can help us better them. secrecy is allowed but not the one that will kill you! When things are not going well, say so!







FAMILY

 FAMILY

Family is the nucleus of the society. So, it is also a subject of satan’s attacks. Even though it is meant to be a breeding ground for talents, some have wondered if that Is still achievable these days. We cannot talk about a family without being conscious of the individuals that make it up. Everybody has a role to play but it is good to know that when the head is rotten, the whole body is affected but healing can still come from within. So, it is not a bad idea to keep trying. A bad soul can be changed but while at it, do not allow yourself to be killed. Your death does not liberate a soul. It worsens the situation. In fact, it complicates everything. So, strive to be alive by all means possible. At the most, do not let the situation get out of hand! Let us also know that it is not an example of martyrdom when someone dies through domestic violence. The truth is that the person died as a victim and not as a martyr as some people might dishonestly opine! In fact, death through marital tussles is uncalled for!

All these are obtainable when the purpose of marriage is defeated. In the absence of that, peace can reign everywhere! I have always said one thing, if you cannot help people, at least, do not hurt them. 

Family is filled with love when everybody knows what is expected of him or her and do them so long as they are permitted within the confines of the laws governing the society and also appeal to the law of human conscience. Right now, we have voluntarily lost what the definition of an ideal family should be but people opine that every family has one or two problems besieging it but how they make remedies available is what matters!

Always have a substitute for all your plans if you must succeed. The reason is because, when one plan fails and there is none else to replace it, your chances of achieving a goal are minimal. Let us not think that it is a shameful act to activate plan B. when those you always receive things from are no longer interested in giving to you, try to work for yourself so that you can get and then be able to give! It is also possible to be at the giving end! Just decide to say that enough is enough and you can be able to switch sides. When you are always expecting to receive, you are most likely not to be able to give! Make it a habit to be always giving and when it is your turn to receive, you do that with a grateful heart. That is how the society works; you can give help and receive help. 

Time will humble you, accept that. Pregnancy is not your mate. So, when you see a woman going through pregnancy, do not increase the pains for her! The best way to avoid beating a woman in the society is to see your loving mother in her. Whether dead or alive, you dare not. I know that in some cases, people can threaten, shout at or even disagree with their parents but it is seemingly impossible (in a functional society) for them to lay those dirty fingers of theirs on their parents. The reason is because there are consequences. If you see everything wrong in beating your mother, which thing should not even cross your mind, then you must see everything more disgustingly wrong in laying your filthy hands on a woman because she is somebody’s mother, daughter, sister, aunt, neighbour, helper, teacher, supporter and any other yummy thing you can think of.

Now, let me tell you a story: there was a time I went working at a construction site after my graduation and as fate would have it, I met different set of people. One was claiming to be spiritual, the other was claiming to be strong and the other was claiming to be alcoholic and no day passed without us hearing new things or maybe, old things with new touch of lies. So, one of the days, we were discussing, directly or indirectly, I was hearing everything and the one that was claiming to be spiritual was busy boasting about how that he used to be a serious member of one church like that and how that he used to fast a lot and also stayed away from temptations and a particular guy asked that was listening to him asked him; At what stage did you start avoiding women? In fact, he asked that question in such a way as to say that getting the correct answer to that question would solve all his problems that have to do with temptations!

Of course, temptations come from different angles including money or lack of it, laziness or inordinate ambitions and most importantly, politics or inability to handle one’s relationships.

It baffles me when one says that one is trying to keep oneself from stains by avoiding women. Come on, there are other angles that stains can come from even if women do not exist! So, you must be careful in all things! Avoiding women does not solve your problems. What solves your problem is self-control; the extent you go with them matters. If as a man you want to avoid women then I don’t know how that is possible because possibly, you still have a mother, you have a sister, you might get a wife and as well give birth to a girl child and they are all women or women in the making!

I really do not think that the young man answered the question at all because he didn’t have the answer! I mean, who does that? The truth is that you cannot even avoid temptations but you can overcome them. the reason is because if temptations could be avoided then nobody will be tempted again because no one wants to go through them! Now, listen to me, if as a man, you think that women are your problem then you are the problem because there is something wrong with your mindset. I guess you know that if God wanted women to be avoided then He would have put them in another planet because He is the Almighty that can do all things and there are still some ‘empty’ planets in the universe! Even the mother of our Lord Jesus Christ is a woman. So, let us give them their space!

In a family, there are things that the father of the house has to do, there are things the mother in the house has to do and there are things that the children born into a family have to do. And, if you ask me, I think women should be romantic, men should be hard working and also romantic while the children should be obedient because obedience comes with orderliness. 

Do not disrespect a woman because her people have seemingly nothing to offer! That woman that you look down on might be useful to you in a way and do not turn into a beast overnight because you have seen someone you think that you can beat. It is not what you think; the society can come to her aid when your activities leak. Go and check history, no one has ever supported a man when he is at loggerheads with a woman and do not fail to speak up when you are the one at the receiving end and you know, everybody is equal before the law. So, you can get justice.








DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

 Of course, we are talking about family here! Without being told, one would discern that domestic violence has to do with bringing harm to people who are close to one either in form of relationship, family ties or contracts. The most popular form of contract in our society is marriage and when people get married, they are expected to live together in peace, raise children in a healthy environment (if they want to) and also contribute to the positive growth of the society as to be law-abiding citizens. If there is no peace in the family, then we are talking about violence and do you know what some people fear the most? It is divorce!

No matter how you see it, nobody wants to get a divorce except for those who went into the marriage institution for the feel. Yes, some people can go into marriages to know whether what people said about it is true or maybe, it is overrated. 

Funny enough, life is like that. Some people just want to get marriage to taste what other people have tasted. There is the will of god in marriage but only the spiritual people can understand it. 

Apart from that, everybody should marry based on purpose because not everybody is spiritual. Though, we believe God can still work in mysterious ways, it is good to follow instructions and make the Bible the basis of your understanding. When talking about purpose in life, we should understand that what comes into mind is to marry and when that purpose is defeated, malice comes in. of course, there are different outlets from marriages. One of them is separation which the church favours and the other is divorce which makes the couple to ultimately part ways but I think that is for the brave or those who have decided to call it a quit.

Be it as it may, I believe that the court has the procedure for that and you can meet a lawyer but most sources agree that divorce is most likely to be granted based on the presentation of a concrete evidence!

Today, marriage is something else! The marriages that people are supposed to be learning from are now top centres for malice and hate instead of love and togetherness. It is disheartening but something can be done!

On a personal note, violence is not good but people enjoy it when they are not the victims! They can even go as far as bribing top officials to have their way by endeavouring to misinterpret the law so as to work in their favour! This they do by showing the victim an upper hand in terms of finance, using lies and also paying the victim’s legal representative to speak in their favour or delay justice! Yes, such things are obtainable. Let us also note that domestic violence is a complicated subject because both men and women are into it. When you are talking about a husband beating his wife, you are also talking about a woman maltreating somebody’s child that live with her and as well, a wife showing her husband hell. There is also the possibility of a child suffering molestation from an adult but that is beyond the scope of this discourse yet it can lead to violence. 

Talking about divorce, disagreements are what lead to it but there are different ways of settling cases which can be done peacefully. Having said so, it can be made known that violence does not always have to be physical in form of beatings but it can also be verbal, psychological or emotional. Just watch out and be safe.

Going into a marriage contract has to do with a certain level of understanding, trust and maturity. Your husband or wife is not a business partner but a life partner that you can always get back to even after break ups but make sure that little misunderstandings do not lead to bearing of grudges but should be settled amicably. It is disheartening to know that bad news are coming from Christian homes! I don’t know how to reconcile with that but that is not in line with the gospel.

The ugly thing about marriage is that it is not everybody that is qualified to teach you about it except those who you are sure have something to offer in terms of examples, substance and character! So, in some cases, people are left to bear their burdens alone though, that is not always the best way out. No matter how ugly it sounds, speak up in readiness to be helped but always do that into the ears of the people you can trust. The reason is because if you share your sorrows in the midst of the people that hate you, they will frown at the fact that you are still alive. 

Let us not digress but not all marriages are of God. In spite of that, live well. It will not be a good thing to be made a bad example in the face of the community. So, when you sense matters arising, seek solutions on time. Let us not forget that marriage comes with responsibilities. When you get married, it is now your responsibility to clear your mind of grudges, to avoid malice by all means, to give explanations where needed, to jettison excuses, to provide for the family where needed and to forgive always!

Domestic violence has not come to stay! It is a menace that can be eliminated. There has not been any good thing that comes out from a violent man beating his wife or a deceitful woman putting her husband in bondage and all other such things and even when you try to bring up results that claim otherwise, it proves abortive! Let us make peace, it is better but peace has a price attached to it which can be paid on the altar of honesty. If you cannot be honest with your spouse, then we are not talking about marriage here but two adults living together!

   




















Surviving Identity Crisis

 Identity crisis has to do with the distortion of ideas, personality and opinions that one has about oneself. This might not be a dictionary definition of the concept but you have to understand that we must arrive at a conclusion in order to continue. 

Let me even tell you, before you grow up, you must pass through several battles in order to arrive at who you are! If you do not pass through delays at all, you will not be able to figure out what being patient is all about, if you have never been offended especially by the people around you, by government or by some friends, you will not know what forgiveness is all about and if you have never stolen or felt guilty then we can as well conclude that you are Jesus Christ Himself because he is known to be the only perfect person that has ever lived. 

Now, let us take a clue from these. There are some pains you need to pass through so that you can be strong, there are people that have to betray you so that you can chose those close to you wisely and there are times you need to give up on so that you can have time for other things. Though, giving up is not a very popular opinion among us but I still handle it because not everything is worth dying for! that course is not worth dying for no matter how professional it is, that family is not worth dying for no matter how secretive it is so long as it is filled with domestic violence, disagreements and betrayals and that person is not dying for if he or she is wayward! Do not give up on helping them but give up on being emotional. 

Intelligence can help you a lot when you pick your information wisely. The truth is that there are things you need to hear directly from the people who said them before you can go about acting on them! saying what you don’t know does not guarantee success, judging others based on what people said about them does not guarantee sincerity and being who you are does not depend on what people said about you but what they say can affect you if you allow it.

Several months ago, I went through hell but I am not here to talk about it because I have decided to speak less of myself and more of Jesus Christ. The reason is because of the fact that the peace of the fact that the peace he brought into my life brings me understanding. Now, you can look into your life to see where things had gone wrong, the ones you have corrected and the ones you have not then we can begin to talk about domestic violence, family and relationships in order to know what identity crisis is all about and how to survive.


THE PEACOCK FEATHER

 THE PEACOCK FEATHER 

In the faraway town of Oshomogwo, there lived an old man who gave people signal whenever they want to go to war!If he gives you a white peacock feather, it means that you are going to win and if he gives you another colour or any mixture of it then, it means you are going to fail and towns usually sent their messengers to him before going to war or deciding not to.

Imiano was in the King's Royal Guard when he was called upon to run the errand but unfortunately for him and for the whole town, he misplaced the feather on his way coming back. So, he replaced it with another one which he found on the way not minding that it was not a peacock feather but a turkey feather. So it was that he returned with the wrong signal and they went to war in which they were defeated.

The major cause of the struggle was a parcel of land between the two villages. The Omalarum people and the Okatatum had lived as neighbours until the issue of land came up and they were in dismay as both villages had been marrying from each other and they wouldn't want to spill their own blood. So, they sent imiano to go and consult the old man at Oshomogwo before they could decide whether to fight or not!When they were being killed at the battle ground, they couldn't believe it as they had thought victory would be on their side!When they failed, they decided to dispatch a retaliation force into the thick forest to fish the man out but their greatest undoing was that they didn't ask imiano,what happened along the way!

What happened was that imiano was thinking about Ogechi all the while that he was running the errand!Ogechi was the girl he wanted to marry but the villages joined hands and sacrificed her to the river goddess because she was a virgin and the damned goddess had requested for one not knowing that imiano was her secret admirer.

According to him, "it served them right!" but he never knew that it was going to get to him. When the war broke out, imiano was at the king's palace chewing kola nut with the elders and smiling while other warriors went to war to be killed. When his own troop couldn't win, they sent words to the king for reinforcement and imiano's team was sent!On getting there, he hid himself because he knew they could not win the war!It was after they had ended the war that he came out and offered to help gather the corpses of the fallen heroes and also the left over weapons. The people of imiano's town went home licking their wounds while the others went home rejoicing.

That week, the king sent a sophisticated group to the forest to fetch the old man but they didn't come out from that place alive!He sent the second group and the same thing happened. So, the third group and the wise general got involved. When they got to the mouth of the river, they dropped all their weapons and went in unarmed before going to see the old man.
When the old man saw them, he started laughing and told them that if they had not done what they did, they would have just died like the other ones because he was not even in the forest as at the time they came and that those people got eaten by a huge lion.

The wise general told him that they did not need a weapon to catch him because he had never given a wrong signal being that he had nothing to gain or lose from the warfare or the outcome of it. At they requested him to tell them exactly what happened and he narrated everything according as he had seen it in the realm of the spirits. That week, they regretted not asking questions before sacrificing that girl and imiano was justified. When they got home, the king did everything necessary and the wicked water spirit was sacked from the village stream being that it had not contributed anything towards the positive growth of the society if not asking for innocent virgins!


Before they could get home, imiano had already packed his things and fled the community.

ATTITUDE.

 This is what determines your altitude. You can live as though you do not exist. You can live as though nothing matters to you anymore but in all, your level of determination determines where you get.


I have seen men who fell when they were just a step away from the destination. I have also seen those who wept when they were meant to be rejoicing due to lack of understanding.

Life is a matter of choice. You cannot carry pregnancy if you have never dreamed of being a nursing mother. So, you may never know what the other fellow goes through until you step into his or her shoes which may not even be suitable for you by the way. 


Never think you would do better if you were in someone else’s shoes. The reason is because you are still here. So, life is spent in stages.

Do not use the time you are meant to utilize planning to quarrel because you may never get it back. All of us wanted to graduate from the university but we didn’t know that there was no place for us at the national youth service corps secretariat. Hence, the need to wait. Never think you are too late for a journey you never planned because you may get there not knowing what you want. Hence, the need to do anything just to make both ends meet. Life is not all about committing crimes and saying, “After all, nobody sees me.” Your conscience is there to speak up when the time arrives. That is why some people would go into the Law Court, deny their Christian identity, moral background and prefer to swear with the Quran just to tell more lies even though they are still proud of their names which stem from Christianity. 

Let us face the real thing. Nobody is saying you should not commit crimes but be ready to pay the full price when caught because you can’t escape all the time. There is always a time of reckoning. 

That your parents did not give you the best of lives should not warrant your hatred for them. Come on, you are young and vibrant, and you can still do something. Forget the myriad of excuses that can easily fade away once you take a stand.

The reason why you are not standing yet is because you are still comfortable lying on the floor. May God give you the kind of discomforts that would see you to the top. In fact, may He preserve and adorn you with wisdom and skills needed to do exploits in the upper heights because you are not meant for the floor.

You can’t be poor forever. You can’t feel sad forever and you cannot take side all the time. Choose to do good and good things would locate you no matter how long it takes. 

 

 


OPEN-MINDEDNESS

 Life is not all about what you feel. At times, people would have varying feelings from yours. It is left for you to know what is actually good for everybody because if we are so self-centered that we can no longer look beyond ourselves to do things so as to benefit others but keep thinking about who we are and who we want to be, the planet might have to shrink to fit just us. But it is not so. In Nigeria alone, we have different opinions, modes of dressings, beliefs and even languages but these are not enough to cause problems. 

Wherever somebody faces to reach, there he or she could get to. If you are always looking out for troubles to cause rather than problems to solve, it will not benefit you anything. Truth be told, our days are numbered. Hence, the need to act fast. 

Not everybody will believe in what you say, not everybody will dress the way you like and not everybody will act the way you like but wherever you face to reach, there you can get to. 

In fact, most families are in shambles today due to a single lie, a single criminal act and a single reckless thought that was left unchecked. Would you like to be considered a destroyer where you can build? Of course, no. Take life easy, see things the way they actually are and do not pretend to be rich when you are poor. 

Living a double-faced life has a way of limiting you. No one goes to the farm without knowing what one wants and no can occupy an office without the right tools. Every occupation has a tool that qualifies one to be in it. If you are an Accountant, get certified and if you are a Pastor better get a Bible for one cannot serve God with nothing lest such an one should be considered as serving God in dirt and myriad of misconducts due lack of substance.

Never think you have it all, there is still more to be acquired and that, the right way.

The reason why so many people have soiled their hands in so many evils today is because they see no reason why they should follow the right way because it has the rice of patience to paid. 

Diligence is what makes you to think above your limits and planning is what helps you achieve your goals. Without plans, you can always have a collapsed building, a collapsed destiny and worse still, a collapsed family.

Let us face things as they come and not leave them to chance. Nothing happens by accident else there would be a clash or do you like watching accident scenes? No one except those who are formally there for taking responsibilities of saving people’s lives. So, do not leave anything to chance but soar high to achieve your aims.

There is no maximum limit you can reach. It depends on how you work on it. Mad men never get tired of chasing the wind because they think that that is all they have got to do. To something you must go all out for it, to do otherwise is hypocrisy.


If you want the sea, you must lose sight of the shore and if you want the plain ground, you can as well, forget about the high hills. You cannot divide yourself into two but you can invest your efforts here and there at different times because the seeds we sow today could form the fruits from which we reap of tomorrow.

Don’t get me wrong. I am not saying that you should run mad. What I am driving at is that the word, “MAD.” Is actually an acronym for, “Making A Difference.” And that you must do every day without hurting anyone.














BUOYANCY.

 Bring out the best in you. It is not a crime. Truth be told, you are worthy of it. If you have worked for good things, then enjoy. And if you have not, this is a good time to get started. Nobody would deny you the harvest when you have worked for it. All it takes is to go out there and sow something then be patient enough to wait for the proceeds. Nothing happens by chance. Not even success. What people enjoy today is as a result of what they have worked for. So, do not envy them but hope to receive recompense for your good deeds. 

To be dutiful to what you want done is a sign of progress but to know it and not do it amounts in dullness which pays no one. Never think that anybody can hold of your destiny. No one can and nobody should but in all, be diligent enough to know what you want. Be creative. Creativity is what differentiates one person from the other because where one could see thorns, another could find security in the thorns. So, it is a matter of choice. Either to see a circumstance as a barricade or to see it as an opportunity that needs to be grabbed.


Long ago, no one thought that we could be in faraway countries talking to each other. In fact, if anybody was to bring up the idea, it could have been envisaged as a form of Spiritism, medium or even witchcraft. But today, the reverse is the case: imagine calling somebody in Australia through video calls! 

You could be the next global sensation to be felt if you could do the little things you once did with little touches of perfection, mastery and credibility. Never look down on yourself. You could be the one I need to make me a whole but in all, let’s learn to stand for each other no matter what. Hence, the need for unity.

Not all bonds are there for your good. In fact, some are there to keep you in perpetual bondage. Know what you want, stick to it has always been the best way out because anybody that carries not the same vision with you might not walk through the same narrow path as you. In fact, there is every possibility of being entangled. Whatsoever that does not contain good things for you should be treated as a contaminant.


Any country that is being surrounded by countries that are always at wars are always prepared and on the alert because ignorance is the least thing you should feign as it comes with a dire consequence. 

Let’s not pretend as if we don’t know what is happening, the whole world is in a total mess and it is being ravaged by wars, pestilence and even pandemics. No one is left out except those who are determined to take exceptional steps. To pay the price of obedience and to dance to the tone of patience can survive these.

This is not the time to point accusing fingers at another person, rather, it is a time to look problems straight into the eyes and say, “I can find the solution.” That is what we would expect from you not complaints and useless bunch of excuses that have no basic reasoning or evidence of existence attached to it.

We are no longer in the era of mediocrity when men lived in darkness rather, we are in the technology era where seemingly impossible things become possible through the aid of computer.

Never think that any wind of rumours whatsoever can stop you if you take a step forward. In fact, only those who summon the unprecedented courage to move forward are known to receive handshakes on the podium.

It is not Africa magic, it is real. Character matters a lot because beauty without it poses the question of, “How come?”

When the pen dances furiously upon the pages of life, I will remember you but in all, be who you are for that is what matters.  












INNOVATIONS

 This is the prerequisite for transformations. Where innovations exist, development comes in hand. Transform your business ideas into success. They’re not meant to remain just thoughts forever. Some of your thoughts are due to be birthed. They are still where they are because you let them to be there. Any word not put into use does not form an action. And any act not calculated brings misfortune because it requires thinking, planning and execution to hit a target. Inasmuch as the mind is a battlefield on its own, it can also be a Launchpad for certain businesses. 


When next you have a wonderful plan, turn it into action. Nobody can read your mind mysteriously and get to know what you are asking for without you making some sounds in that direction even though it may seem that you are a beggar; ask.


It pays to do so than to steal or even take another person’s things forcefully which may amount in crimes. Let us be realistic, you can get whatever you want if you can ask the right way. Although, it is not every person that would buy into your ideas. Just learn to meet the right people. Some would even think that you did it at the wrong time but be resolute because no time is convenient. In fact, every time is precious, use it well. 

To live without being innovative is to be unappreciative because it sounds somehow to say that a person is just a consumer and never attempts to produce something that others would benefit from because even casket designers solve problems if not, we would have been living with unburied corpses littered everywhere.

Find something to do and make yourself distinguished in that regard. It does not matter the amount of tears you shed during trying times but if victories come, you would definitely rejoice. 

The essence of living is to help others. If you don’t know this, you may want to hurt them with or without knowing it. Life is too short. The little we can spend here on Earth speaks volumes about us. In life, it is either you are repairing or damaging, building or demolishing. You can’t do both at the same time because it shall amount in being double-faced. Be true to yourself. Life starts when you say yes to sane living not when you think you could do anything and get away with it. Hence, the resolution to begat violence.


Even if the government agencies are not watching, there are invisible eyes that behold whatsoever you are doing and they are in your soul. You cannot get away from them because they are forever with you and they wail sore after you until you do the right things. The best way to make peace with your conscience is to do the right else it keeps crying after you. There is no right way to do the wrong thing and there is no wrong way to the right thing. Hence, the need to know what you stand for before it grows into a mess.  

A lot of people ignore the warning signals they receive while working with others and end up in regrets. Life is not meant to be toyed.


If you cannot account for today, nobody would give you a clean slate for tomorrow. Hence, the need to keep yours clean and work instead of expecting good things to come from somewhere. That is why people end up having lofty dreams that never materialize because they think that someone somewhere has to work for its actualization. 


Dreaming is not enough! It is stupidity not to work for whatsoever you want and end up blaming your ancestors who do not even know that you exist talk more of bringing your success to fruition. There are no differences between a lazy person and a dead person, a shallow thinker and a destroyer. The only difference is in the time it takes for both to meet together. 


A person who has never built anything worthwhile will feel okay destroying another person’s own. Hence, the rampant cases of defamation, abuse of character and derogatory remarks persons we hear about.

It is not as though people do not make mistakes, it is just that sincere people would have them forgotten once they are resolved while slanderers would carry them about as if to say that they are the most affected.

People only talk too much when there are no points to be made. Life would be sweeter if we practice honesty instead of lies, giving instead of lack, sincere advice instead of gossips based on hearsays and helping others instead of hurting them. 

Keep your problems to yourself until you find someone you know can solve them. Don’t go about telling every person you meet on the road about your problems as some would end up using them to get back at you in a hurtful way. It hurts to know that the people you once shared your burdens with no longer care because they have gotten somewhere above you in the ladder of success or career. Hence, the decision to forget about you because you have always terrorized their minds with the tales of how you are having this or the other. Just stop the complaints already and start bringing solutions. If you don’t have a solution to offer now, find one. Nobody is willing to invest in rubbish. Your ideas are as good as how well you have crafted them but stealing or peeping into other people’s own even though you can pick up inspirations from here and there is not allowed instead, be original. It pays to do so because in all, what counts is what you really have not what people think you should. May the arms of the flesh not fail you but even if they do; trust in God.


There are no other ways to put these words, if there were, I would have follow them but since you are born to be a giant and not to be a dwarf, take them as they come: God loves you and would want to see you soar high but you have to work for it without stealing because doing so would dent your image. Thereby making people to see you as the black sheep of the family.


Now, what people think about you should not matter but if you have no inherent goodness, do not bother saying they are gossiping you if what they have said about you are all true. 

There are no smokes without fire. Whatever you are doing today, people are watching you, you are just left to your own conscience. Even though they are deadened, you can quicken them by desiring equity for mankind. Nobody is meant to spend his or her entire life in the prisons if they are not deserving of it. But to use power against the truth is a crime on its own. Hence, the need for cross-examination of oneself.

Don’t be a burden to other people because of your ineptitude. There is something you can do to make it in life. Have you heard that nobody is perfect? Yes, that is right. It means that each person is filled with both good and bad traits but those who are said to be the best in the society are those who leverage on the good traits that they have. In fact, if you are totally bad then, you are the worst thing that has ever happened to the world and if you’re totally good then, there is every possibility that you have become God or His Son – Jesus Christ, check yourself very well. It is not that it is bad to become totally good but if you have come to the extent where you can no longer recognize your mistakes and apologize for them then you have become a god living in a human flesh. 

The reason for this is because, to become whatever you must have wanted for yourself, you must capitalize on what you already have. Either the good traits in you to become better or the bad ones to become worse. The choice remains yours to make.