RELATIONSHIPS

I don’t even know how to start defining this one because so many people have bastardized it over the years since they are into illicit ones. Yes, some relationships can be illicit when they are filled with lies and criminal tendencies and that is where marriage scams come from. Just look at the following scenarios: 

1. A man approaches a woman with the promise of marrying her. They go into a relationship that is endless and after moves ahead to marry another person! What a waste of time.

2. A person borrows money from someone he or she is dating and when it is time to pay, the person defaults and claims that it was a gift.

3. Finally, someone promises to marry a lady, takes away her virginity and then comes up with excuses!

These shouldn’t be because other people’s sanctity should be respected because we don’t know who is next. The person you are trying to protect can fall a victim to another! Don’t just serve as a predator to harm the prey! 

In providing solutions to the problems of the world, one just has to search within. If you cannot solve a person’s problem, do not let that person hold false hope about you! Be clear about what you want in a relationship and if it wasn’t structured to lead into marriage from the onset then should be more likely dissolved amicably. It is more worthy to have a cause to rejoice than to be a casualty!

IDENTITY

Identity is who you are. It is not who people think you should be. Except if what they are saying about you is better than who you think of yourself then you should adjust. Building an identity does not entail paying deaf ears to everybody! There are times that you need to take corrections, make restitutions and try to set the record straight. Just as in company branding, identity building takes time that is why it pains when somebody is slandered for no just cause. Your logo should be a wholesome speech. What people hear from you is what they are more likely to judge you by because they believe that those things are coming directly from your heart and that is how you are. If you have a perverted mindset, people will perceive it from the way you talk. I once opined that mouth odour is bad but mind odour is worse! Work on keeping your mind clean because that is how to have a healthy body. When your head is filled with pornographic materials, extreme violence or negative thoughts about people and things then you are more likely to exhibit that in the future!

People develop pride when they feel that no one is above them. it is good to have that feeling of being above the world but it is also good to know that you can learn from people when you humble yourself. Pride comes to pull down, humility comes to balance the equation. It is not realistically proven that every humble person will be rich but it helps you to maintain your lane!

When you begin to think that everybody should be, is or is going to be below you in everything, remember that you have not yet known it all and you can ask for help where you feel incompetent but you must keep your mind open to wholesome thoughts and good ideas that can blossom into big businesses. 

To handle certain offices, you need to be trained. If you are not teachable, you can’t be trained, if you are not able to take corrections, you can’t improve and if you are not able to recognize where you are wrong, you can’t be able to ask for forgiveness and when people keep reminding you that you could be wrong in some cases, it beats your imagination because you think that you are perfect. At times, attack your ego and set things right. If you are too big to know the truth, then you are more likely to be comfortable living in falsehoods. At times, expect the truth from undeserving channels but do not be deceived.

Not every person you meet on the road is an honest person, rule out imagination and accept reality, rule out greed and accept to work diligently and rule out darkness and accept light. Let us reflect on our lives and know where we are getting things wrong and seek new information that can help us better them. secrecy is allowed but not the one that will kill you! When things are not going well, say so!