ANGER

 ANGER

I don’t know a word that better describes a set-up than anger. Anger is a trap! Run from it. People can get angry and say what they shouldn’t and later they turn around to start regretting it. Those people who get angry and flare up do so because they lack self-control. Of course, who doesn’t? But when it becomes more frequent, it should be managed. You cannot stay under the same roof with an angry person and feel happy because you don’t know what he or she would do next! In a moment of rage, you can see your laptop flew past your head and out it goes through the window! Pacify a soul. Do all you can to remain peaceful but when it is not working, call it a quit. 

Be a serial peace maker but do not get entangled in it. There are people who have sworn not to have peace or let others get it, beware and act accordingly. When they see you happy, they come to question your source of happiness and when they fail to make you angry, they would drop a word that makes you confused so long as you allow it to dominate your thinking faculty. Some words are not meant for you, when people push their anger on you, do not feel infuriated but handle the situation calmly especially as the law permits.

The best way to stay away from trouble is to avoid giving them. you cannot give what you don’t have! If you are fond of giving problems, one day, those problems will return to you and when they do, you would look for who to blame for your woes and when you find no one to heap them on, you can even find solace in thinking that they came from the pit of hell. Some people blame some non-existent spirits for their woes while the causes of their problems are staring them right in the faces! Stop being assumptive and work hard on making every minute that you spend on earth count. 

People remember you for who you are because of the memories they have formed about the happy times, the sad times and the weird times that you spent around them. if what they have been hearing about you is true, they will confirm that when they come in contact with you and if what they have been hearing about you is false then they would have a rethink when they have a life experience with you! First impression matters but try to have a long lasting impression of goodness after the first one!