Surviving Identity Crisis

 Identity crisis has to do with the distortion of ideas, personality and opinions that one has about oneself. This might not be a dictionary definition of the concept but you have to understand that we must arrive at a conclusion in order to continue. 

Let me even tell you, before you grow up, you must pass through several battles in order to arrive at who you are! If you do not pass through delays at all, you will not be able to figure out what being patient is all about, if you have never been offended especially by the people around you, by government or by some friends, you will not know what forgiveness is all about and if you have never stolen or felt guilty then we can as well conclude that you are Jesus Christ Himself because he is known to be the only perfect person that has ever lived. 

Now, let us take a clue from these. There are some pains you need to pass through so that you can be strong, there are people that have to betray you so that you can chose those close to you wisely and there are times you need to give up on so that you can have time for other things. Though, giving up is not a very popular opinion among us but I still handle it because not everything is worth dying for! that course is not worth dying for no matter how professional it is, that family is not worth dying for no matter how secretive it is so long as it is filled with domestic violence, disagreements and betrayals and that person is not dying for if he or she is wayward! Do not give up on helping them but give up on being emotional. 

Intelligence can help you a lot when you pick your information wisely. The truth is that there are things you need to hear directly from the people who said them before you can go about acting on them! saying what you don’t know does not guarantee success, judging others based on what people said about them does not guarantee sincerity and being who you are does not depend on what people said about you but what they say can affect you if you allow it.

Several months ago, I went through hell but I am not here to talk about it because I have decided to speak less of myself and more of Jesus Christ. The reason is because of the fact that the peace of the fact that the peace he brought into my life brings me understanding. Now, you can look into your life to see where things had gone wrong, the ones you have corrected and the ones you have not then we can begin to talk about domestic violence, family and relationships in order to know what identity crisis is all about and how to survive.